Do You Need to Check Your Coffee Grinder’s Settings?

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“Which grinder do you use for your decaf?” I called out to my daughter.

“The small one.”

I grumbled inwardly—at home I used a nice burr grinder, and I worried that the blade grinder wouldn’t produce the same taste (I’m not a coffee snob, really). My burr grinder odyssey had started with the best of intentions—I wanted to save money and create my own coffee-shop-worthy lattes at home. So, I did what I do before making big decisions—I researched on the Internet how one can craft good lattes at home.

According to my research, a burr grinder produced a finer, more even grind—which allowed the water to get pressed through at just the right rate to produce smooth, beautiful crema (the nirvana of coffee aficionados). As a result, I found a good burr grinder on closeout at Costco along with an inexpensive espresso machine.

I love vacation, and I love my daughter, but I worried that my latte would lack the taste I’d worked os hard to achieve. As I poured beans into my daughter’s grinder, I couldn’t remember how long one has to hold down the lid to get a fine grind. I hoped counting to 100 would produce a good enough latte.

As the coffee came out the spouts with perfect crema, I marveled at the efficiency of my daughter’s cheap blade grinder. After all, I’d been having trouble with my espresso machine at home producing watered-down coffee with little to no crema.

Maybe I had failed to use a fine enough grind on my machine at home.

When I returned from vacation, I eagerly set my burr grinder to a finer setting, only to have even more watery results. Maybe the higher elevation affected the brew, I thought. The next time, I moved the dial ever further—but the results disappointed me again. Perhaps I wasn’t compacting the coffee into the filter enough, so I tried pressing with all my might. On the third try, I moved the dial all the way to fine grind—but my grinder didn’t seem capable of making the almost powdery grind that my daughter’s blade grinder produced.

Frustrated, I finally cleaned the inner mechanism of my grinder and shook it a little (as if that would solve the problem). That’s when I realized that for who knows how long (maybe ever since I purchased the grinder), I had been slowly moving the dial in the wrong direction.

Instead of setting my grinder to a fine grind, I had been inching it towards the coarse grind. No wonder my espresso machine had produced an increasingly watery brew!

After my careful research, I knew that a burr grinder should produce a better-tasting brew—but while I felt vaguely satisfied (maybe even self-satisfied that I saved money whilst other chumps forked out five bucks for a venti), I always felt vaguely cheated because my decaf skinny lattes didn’t taste like the ones in the coffee shop.

After properly adjusting the grind to ‘fine’, I have savored my money-saving, crema-rich lattes—but my experience left me uneasy. In what other areas of my life have I fallen short because I failed to set the dial at the proper setting?

Christianity, for one thing. For the longest time I thought I was a Christian because I had bought into a religion. Baptized at seven, I did all of those things I thought I should do to be a ‘good Christian girl.’

For some reason, I thought that part of my Christian persona included judging others by my new standards. I bought into a culture of comparison that eventually left me dissatisfied with my weak and judgmental religion—mostly because I realized that my Judgy McJudgerton mentality had become my own harshest critic.

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Maybe that’s what Jesus talks about when he says, “Don’t pick on people, jump on their failures, criticize their faults— unless, of course, you want the same treatment. That critical spirit has a way of boomeranging” (Matthew 7:1-2 MSG).

If I feed myself a steady stream of internal (or external) criticism of others, pretty soon I will direct that stream at myself—I become coarse and produce a bitter brew in my life.

I have discovered the value of checking the settings in my life—whether they be the dial on my coffee grinder or the reasons behind why I do the things I do. When I allow God to constrain me and break down my natural inclinations, I turn into something finer that will produce a pleasing crema.

Christianity is more than just a category on a checklist. It’s a living, vibrant relationship that works within me. When I lose my settings, no matter how hard I try to squish all those ‘right things’ into my life, I end up producing a weak witness that doesn’t deserve the name Christian.

How’s your brew been lately?

I’m linking up with Women2Women Ministries today.

Anita currently teaches English to 7th-12th graders. She describes herself as a 'recovering cancer caregiver' who gives thanks daily that her husband has been cancer-free for ten years.

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  • Yes! First, I love coffee and enjoyed your story of the dial turned the wrong way. Mostly I loved how we claim we are Christian but then don’t try to develop our relationships with God and others because we are focused on the end product rather than the process of nurturing and sustaining. Beautiful analogy.

    You got my attention with “coffee”!! Hope you are well! Blessings as you make your way through this week!
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    • There’s something about a good cuppa that really helps me settle down and relax–Pedro once asked me if it was the ritual of making the coffee or the actual coffee that I like better. I couldn’t decide. I should probably examine my religious rituals, too, come to think about it!
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  • Your titles just make me smile. Every time.
    Then I read the words and am taught and sometimes messed with, but in a good way.
    Thanks for this great motivator to examine why we do the things we do.
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  • Checking the settings. Yes, this is a must do. I’m thinking of a few that are just a bit our of kilter. And it shows.

    Thanks for the invitation, Anita …

    Time for a bit of a tune up!
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    • You’re welcome, Linda :). I could have used a car analogy…but I never worry about my car because my husband does that stuff ;).
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  • Anita, I love your stories! I could see myself turning to the wrong setting this whole time too. So much THIS: “Christianity is more than just a category on a checklist. It’s a living, vibrant relationship that works within me. When I lose my settings, no matter how hard I try to squish all those ‘right things’ into my life, I end up producing a weak witness that doesn’t deserve the name Christian.”
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  • Beautiful analogy, Anita! It went straight to my coffee lover’s heart. We definitely need to keep checking our settings, don’t we. So easy to go off in the wrong direction. An easy thing to check for me is bedtime. When I consistently stay up too late, boy oh boy, does it affect my spiritual life!
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  • “Christianity is more than just a category on a checklist. It’s a living, vibrant relationship that works within me.” Yes! Well said. It’s so easy to fall into judgement of others and ourselves if we don’t meet a certain standard, but that’s not God’s way at all. He offers forgiveness!

  • I’m not a coffee gal, but your explaination brought the perfect latte to life. (So glad the dial sits correctly now, by the way.) Now, to be like that smooth latte in the Christian realm. I’ll take one of those, please!

  • Blessed are the finely ground believers for in them the Living Water will flow smoothly! Producing good cuppas of Christ wherever they go. 😉 I always love your posts!!!
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  • This is so good – and so applicable to where I am right now! GREAT post!
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  • Inviting analogy for a deeper and practical thought! Thanks 🙂
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  • I know very little about coffee grinding, but I understood the basics thanks to your post. We all need to examine or internal settings from time to time to ensure we are on the right track with God. I am so glad you found Christ. Thanks for sharing this post. 😉
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  • Powerful analogy, Anita! It’s good to examine and recalibrate from time to time. Blessings 🙂